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How many exits does Shinjuku station have?

a) 27

b) 62

c) 148

d) 200

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The answer is d) 200 exits! Shinjuku station is known to be one of the busiest stations in the world. Trains and subways are connected through big department stores, which means you have huge crowds of people gathering to travel far distances or to shop locally. It is not rare for people to get lost in Shinjuku station, so when you are meeting with your colleagues, make sure to double-check which exit you are supposed...

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What is “Giri Choco”?

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“Giri” is a Japanese word that implies obligation or duty, and “Choco” means chocolate. So, “Giri Choco” is a chocolate that girls give to boys on Valentine’s Day out of obligation.

Even if a girl is not romantically interested in a boy, if she feels bad that he hasn’t received chocolates, she will give him “Giri Choco”. There are no direct ways to tell if the chocolate is being given out of...

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What are some unspoken rules and etiquette at onsen (hot springs) in Japan?

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My Japanese family spent generations in the sento (public bath house) business, so this topic is close to my heart!

For starters, if you have any tattoos, you might want to check with your onsen whether or not tattoos are allowed. In the olden days, yakuza (Japanese mafia) were the only people with tattoos, so banning tattoos was a way for onsen owners to avoid yakuza at their establishments. Obviously yakuza...

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Where can you find English-Speaking Therapists in Tokyo?

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The best definition of therapy I’ve heard of is that it’s like “a massage for a brain”. You can’t think your way out of negative thinking, so why not talk to someone who can help you move your thinking in a positive direction?

That said, it might seem hard to find help in Tokyo but, here are counseling centers with licensed professionals who speak a variety of languages:

• Tokyo Counseling Services...

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Have you heard of Otoshidama? What is it?

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On New Year’s Day, kids receive otoshidama (a money gift) from their parents and relatives. Japanese kids will start to learn how to appreciate money and how to handle it from this experience.

There are no rules for the amount; it is different in each family. But to give you an idea, relatives start giving kids around 1000-2000 yen ($10-$20) from when they are born to 10,000 yen ($100) when they complete school. Some people stop giving...

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When you return from a vacation, do you have to bring a gift to the office?

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It’s not an obligation, but the majority of employees who return from their hometown or vacation in Japan bring a small gift to the office for their coworkers.

What kinds of gifts are good to give? Typically, inexpensive treats like chocolates or cookies that can be easily shared are the best options. Gift-giving is a great way to create small talk with other employees and share your experiences about your...

Last week, a company hired me to do a training on “Women in Japan”. They asked me to talk about this topic because foreign women in their company had expressed challenges related to culture shock and gender. 

It made me wonder...is culture shock the same for both foreign men and women who come to Japan? 

If it is the same, then why do some women assume that common cultural frustrations are gender-related? 

And if the experiences are different, what would those...

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Why do Japanese people hesitate to take paid vacations?

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Depending on the company, Japanese people are entitled to take around 20 paid vacation days throughout the year. While most Japanese people take off public holidays (For New Years, Golden week (early May), and Obon (mid August)), the majority of people end up taking only half of the remaining paid holidays provided.

Why don’t Japanese people take advantage of their holidays? There are two main reasons.

The first is a worry...

Pocky is a popular Japanese snack; it's a stick-like cookie covered in chocolate. Have you tried it? Pocky has it's own special day in Japan, let's find out when that is:

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When is Pocky Day?

a) March 3rd (3/3), because 3 pm is snack time

b) June 6th (6/6), because Pocky was invented in 1966

c) November 11th (11/11), because Pocky looks like the number “1”

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The answer is c) November 11th, because Pocky looks like the number “1”!

Pocky day is celebrated mostly among...

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Halloween is popular in Japan…but why?

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Even though Halloween did not originate in Japan, Japan has become one of the top destinations for travelers looking to have the best Halloween Celebration. It all started back in 2000 when Tokyo Disneyland decided to host a Halloween event, an opportunity so popular that it spread to other theme parks and caught on to the general population.

The reason why Halloween has become so popular in Japan is because of the cosplay (dress up)...